Have you ever wondered whether or not you should have the epidural during labor?
I’ve been through not one, but two, hospital births without an epidural. From the first time I got pregnant, I knew I wanted to have a natural birth. I was driven by the desire to give my unborn baby the best start in life. Getting an epidural (or any other pain medication) didn’t seem like I was offering my baby the best start. Plus, I didn’t want to be robbed of the full experience.
The conversation about pain relief commonly comes up when you’re pregnant. With my first, I can remember numerous comments from women questioning, sometimes mocking, my decision to have a medicine-free birth. And the horror stories… my God, the horror stories women like to tell. It’s as if everyone wants to convince you that you’re unable to birth naturally.
Thankfully, I never let these women get into my head. I read, watched videos, and took a natural birth class with my husband. I made it through these two births without an epidural. It leaves me questioning why so many people believe you can’t make it without one, or any other sort of medical intervention. Let me clarify that I did, in fact, request some pain relief during both labors, though never followed through.
So, why am I telling you not to get an epidural? There are risks and side effects associated to birth with and without an epidural. And, you’ll likely feel like you need some relief. But, you can make it without it.
RISKS OF EPIDURAL IN LABORING MOTHER
According to the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, risks of epidural blocks and spinal blocks are the same. They include (quoted from the ACOG website):
Although it is rare, an epidural block can cause the following side effects:
Serious complications with epidurals are very rare:
RISKS OF EPIDURAL ON BABY
According to Chris Kresser, the drugs in an epidural can enter your baby’s bloodstream, and your baby will take longer to eliminate these drugs from his system. There’s a chance your baby’s abilities will be decreased as well as increasing issues with his immune system.
Chris Kresser has a well-written article on natural childbirth and the possible side-effects of epidural on yourself and baby. I suggest you read it.
MY EXPERIENCES IN CHILDBIRTH WITHOUT EPIDURAL
I had TWO completely different childbirth experiences. My first was 26 hours long and exhausting because it literally was a marathon of wakefulness, though contractions were never very intense. My second was a very intense 9 hours.
With my long first labor, I wanted relief … not necessarily from pain, but from the utter exhaustion. The stated 26 hours was only what we counted when I left work to go home to labor. It was 26 hours without any significant rest and I was in serious need of sleep. When I complained enough about needing a “break” the doctor finally came in and told me I was too far along for anything more than an epidural. I didn’t need that kind of break so I excused him from his duties. Moments later, my water was broken and I was having a baby.
My son was 13 days past-due. When I finally went into labor, my body did everything in its power to push that baby out by any means necessary. It was an intense 9 hours in which every contraction felt like I would burst from my core. Again, I began requesting relief, though never did I use the safe word to indicate I had to have it. My requests fell on deaf ears, but in support of my real desire for natural birth (thank God!).
TIPS FOR GOING WITHOUT EPIDURAL
From my experiences, the following things helped me make it through both experiences without ever considering an epidural:
- Fear drives pain. Your state of mind is going to be the driving force in how you handle labor.
- Don’t lose focus. Remind yourself that a contraction is coming and focus on your breathing or movement.
- Pain is temporary. You will get through a contraction (or pushing) and it will be over soon.
- Movement relieves (some) pain. It’s amazing how your body will tell you what you need during a contraction. Be sure to listen to it!
- Have support. It doesn’t matter if it is your husband, partner, mom. It does matter that they support your decisions.
- Be comfortable requesting help. Whether you need counter-pressure during a contraction, back rub, a shoulder to cry on, or help getting into a comfortable position during labor, you need to ask!
Yes, labor is difficult. The comparison that it’s like a marathon isn’t completely inaccurate (especially if you have a long labor). It does hurt, temporarily. When I sit and think about having my IUD inserted (and removed), I prefer labor pains which are natural, and are followed by a symphony of hormones that your body handles on its own. I prefer supporting and trusting my body over trusting medical interventions that come with their own sets of unnatural risks that you open yourself up to when choosing an epidural out of fear.
If you’re interested in natural birth and all the reasons not to succumb medical interventions, I want to recommend a book to you. Everything in this book was reiterated and confirmed during the natural childbirth class I took, led by a L&D nurse and 4 time natural birth mother. I can’t say enough about how helpful this book was for motivating me to take the natural path for my baby’s entrance into the world.
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Tell me: Did you take the epidural during labor?