Toddlers are prone to making our parenting struggles that much more … fun?! Just as I became smug about my children’s eating habits, my son stopped eating. What I do NOW when my toddler won’t eat dinner.
Smug as I may have been about my daughter eating like a champ, my son came along to teach me a lesson. It took him some time though.
While he was an infant learning to eat solids, I could feed him just about everything. Carrots, cauliflower, broccoli, meat, potatoes, and fruits.
There wasn’t much he didn’t enjoy, even if some of the foods were not normally “kid food.” And, I was becoming more smug.
Two kids who ate everything you fed them and both slept 12 hours a night? I was a rock star mom!
And then, he became a toddler. Within days of his 2 year checkup, where I’d proudly reported “he eats everything,” he stopped. Breakfast remained his best meal of the day and I used many of the tactics I shared to get a picky toddler to eat. But, lunch time was hit or miss when it came to eating. And I worried every night when he simply wouldn’t eat dinner.
I tried everything.
I spent months complaining that my toddler won’t eat dinner to anyone who had kids and had gone through the toddler phase.
What Works When Your Toddler Won’t Eat Dinner?
As I said, I tried nearly everything imaginable to get my toddler to eat his meals. When I failed miserably, night after night, I would put him to bed with another empty belly and worried about his health.
Breakfast wasn’t an issue, and I’m pretty sure it was because he was starving from never eating dinner.
I’d load him up on healthier snacks throughout the day – everything from bananas, strawberries, raspberries, crackers, and cheese. And, I’d dole out those fruit and veggie pouches in an effort to ensure he was getting a variety of foods.
We’d offer up treats if he ate.
I’d cut off snack time early in hopes he’d be hungry enough to eat his dinner.
This dragged on for months and I was nearly ready to throw in the towel. I began to proclaim my son had become a picky eater and was just about to the point I was willing to feed him anything he requested just so he’d eat.
But then, someone let me in on a secret.
Secret Hack When A Toddler Won’t Eat Dinner
I am not a doctor, so this is not to be construed as medical advice. This is solely what is working for us when my toddler won’t eat dinner and may not work for everyone.
It’s so simple, I could kick myself for letting this go on so long!
When your toddler won’t eat dinner, put him down and let him run around, play, or watch TV. Whatever makes him happy.
Then, call him over a ask him to take a bite of food. Or, in our case, tell him it’s time for a bite. As he chews, let him run off to do his own thing again. Give him a minute to chew up his food and request he return to the table for another bite.
Offer a range of food, just as you would if he were sitting at the table with you.
Maybe your toddler is just too much of a busy-body to sit still at the dinner table. That’s what appears to have been our problem this whole time. It wasn’t that our guy was a picky eater, he just wanted to be on the move. He’s back to eating (or at least trying) everything on his plate.
5 Tips for Toddler Eating On the Run
When your busy toddler won’t eat dinner unless he’s running around, keep these tips in mind:
- Allowing your toddler to walk around or play while eating is a choking hazard. Be sure to cut food in appropriate sizes and keep an eye on your child.
- Keep his plate in the dining room with the family. This will prevent unnecessary messes in other areas of the house and teaches him the family eats together at the table.
- Continue to praise him and reward him for eating his dinner. Verbal praise, high fives, and an after dinner treat may motivate him to continue good eating habits.
- Know that the mealtime process may take a little longer than normal. Have patience (something I struggle with) … remind yourself this process is better than your toddler not eating at all.
- Continue to offer new foods. The trial food period isn’t over and he may be less resistant to trying new things if he’s happily returning for another bite of food.
Tell me: what have you found to work when your toddler won’t eat dinner?